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A: Well, the answer to this is both simple and complicated. The reason for this is that many factors are involved. The simple answer is “no”, there is not a set time. We are all unique creatures with different life styles and different things that affect or drive us. The greatest sex organ that we have is the brain, and barring medical conditions, it is when our brain tells us that we are extremely turned on that we are apt to have the most intense orgasms. Now comes the more complicated part. With all of that being said, the big O depends on muscle contractions in the pelvic area. Like any tired muscles, the ones involved in orgasm can become, as Chuck Berry once said, “Too pooped to pop.” It might be best to make love earlier in the evening when you have more energy. It might be a good idea not to make love after a heavy meal. Also, be aware that although quickies can be great fun, the orgasms that conclude from them may be disappointing. It takes a good deal of foreplay, and ideally this involves slow, sensual, whole-body caressing to become sufficiently aroused to enjoy earth shattering orgasms. Furthermore, you should be focused on you and your partners pleasure without outside distractions (remember the brain?). Another helpful hint is to try prolonging the act. When you think that you are about to achieve an orgasm, slow down, even stop for a moment if necessary, until you can resume again. The longer the act takes to culmination, the more intense it can be.
Q: Is there a time of day that is best for achieving the most intense sexual climax?
From Brian and Betsy.
A: the answer is yes and no. Let me explain. I am a big advocate of using all different kinds of food in your love making, but you must be careful to avoid using foods containing sugar inside of a woman’s vagina. Sugars can cause bacteria to form and may lead to infection.
Sugarless mints or food can be used anywhere and anyhow.
Mints or foods containing sugar can be used on a woman, including her clitoris, as long as you do not penetrate the vagina.
Mints or foods can always be used on a man.
Q: Is it ok to use mints for oral sex?
From Linda.
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Q: I have never been able to orgasm through penetration. I know that doesn't mean there is something wrong with me, many women cannot, but I'm wondering is there something that I can do so that I can orgasm through penetration one day? Is there a vibrator out there to help me reach orgasm through penetration?
From D.
A: You are correct in your thinking. As a matter of fact, most women cannot orgasm through penetration alone. While some do, most women who achieve climax, do so as a result of clitoral stimulation during intercourse and not by the penetration itself. Those select few that do not require clitoral stimilation, are able to tap into the most important sex organ of all... the brain, and may have a G-spot that is concentrated with many nerve endings. With all of this being said, there are some things that you can do which may help.

First, it should go without saying that it helps to be relaxed and turned on. Second, extremely helpful are certain creams and lotions that can be applied to the clitoris which will allow for greater sensitivity so that less clitoral stimulation is needed while being penetrated. A product such as our "Viva Cream" can help. Third, the use of a vibrator, such as the "I-Vibe Rabbit" can work wonders. This popular toy allows you to have direct clitoral stimulation simultaneously during vaginal insertion. Other items to try are those that can directly reach your G-spot, such as our "Ultra Slim G-Spot" vibe. If you can achieve orgasm this way it will take some practice on your part. There are several others on our website for you to choose from, as well.

Please keep in mind that although attempting to achieve orgasm through penetration alone is a novel goal, not getting there should not be a disappointment or considered failure. Only through time and experimentation will you know your answer, but isn't trying to get there half of the fun?